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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 02:05

How does one succeed in life?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Does not procrastinate.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

So I’m getting piano lessons and my teacher wants me to get an upright piano instead of a keyboard. An upright piano is way above my price range, so what do I do? And what’s the difference between an upright piano and a keyboard?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why do some films seem to date/age so badly?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What were Hitler’s habits?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

What type of sex do women prefer, oral, anal, or vaginal?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How is it, in the USA, a country with 334 million people, the choice of President comes down to two aged men, one of whom is a liar as well as a criminal, one who appears to be on his way to dementia. Surely a democratic country can put up better?

What I need from you?

Making more friends is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Why are there no fossils for the 'missing link' that connects our ancestors with other species? Is this a misconception or is there another explanation?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

What do you think will be the biggest factor in determining whether Daniel Penny was justified in believing that Jordan Neely had posed a deadly threat in the manslaughter trial?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

If Russia needs the resources to fund the war in Ukraine, why doesn’t it throw open its doors to visa free western tourism? Enough people would be interested, & it would start to get some hard currency as €, CHF, £, SEK, $, JPY in the tills at shops.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Ask yourself:

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

That's it for today.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.